What do to with this guy?

Long story short, I have chased unavailable men my whole life based on some abandonment stuff from my dad. I finally have faced these issues and now have met this wonderfully sweet, charming, kind, affectionate man who grabs me and dances with me and does everything to make me smile and laugh. We are literally like peas and carrots going to the extent of reading each others minds on occasion. Sounds great right? Well my problem is I am not used to this sort of treatment and as much as I love it, I am turned off by it. I generally fall pretty fast with feelings and this time I want to but I am hesitant. I am assuming its because hes not bringing out the chase in me? Should I take my time with this one and see where it goes, Ive never taken time to really fall for someone and I am afraid of wasting my time and his, my first nice guy and I find myself pushing him away....does it get any less complicated?